marckaye91Jul 12, 20202 minFactory Floor ParentingI just paid my taxes. This did not go the way I would have hoped. So, in the spirit of making sure I suck all the sunshine out of this...
marckaye91May 10, 20204 minFirsts. Lasts. Mother’s DayOne of the themes I have tried to reinforce to my kids over the years is around the lifetime of “firsts” that awaits them. We all have...
marckaye91Jul 18, 20172 minThis is love, yo (a Poem for my kids – but not yet)I recently posted this to twitter and reposting it in an easier-to-read format. I wrote this about being a dad to two teenagers. Maybe...
marckaye91Mar 29, 20163 minDepression: the Reason vs the LessonWhen my kids aren’t with me, I try to stay as connected to them as possible. I find funny videos or stories and text them links. Or try...
marckaye91Jan 11, 20162 minThe Last TimeI’m looking to also downsize to a small parcel of land with just a couch. My daughter and I were catching up on the two shows we watch...
marckaye91Nov 3, 20152 minThe Virtue of Cat PeeIf only… I want to move on. So. Damn. Badly. Sometimes, I wish there was a big hand from the sky that would reach down, grab me by my...
marckaye91Nov 1, 20154 minDaylight Savings, Raking Leaves & Beginning with the EndIt’s a fine line between death and birth I’m not a huge fan of the period between Thanksgiving and the onset of Spring. I can tolerate...
marckaye91Oct 30, 20153 minBullying, Looking in the Mirror & Changing LeavesAnother lesson from one of my kids.. I had a conference with my daughter’s Gifted Teacher today to review her progress in the program and...
marckaye91Oct 27, 20154 minSupport Vs. ToleranceThis is a just a ribbon. This is not going to be a “feel good” blog but I hope it at least provokes some thought. I was in a bad mood...
marckaye91Sep 2, 20153 minLetting GoMaybe if I tattoo my kids’ faces on my arm…. This morning I sent my son off to Freshman year in high school – at 6:42 in the morning to...
marckaye91Aug 28, 20153 minThe Unbearable Lightness (and occasional darkness) of Being (a Father)Amen. I asked my kids to help me clean up their rooms recently; really clean-up – not the “stuff all your crap in a drawer and use your...
marckaye91May 26, 20152 minMemorial Day PerspectiveIt’s so easy to get wrapped up in our daily drama and at our best, to realize that “suffering” is a natural part of growth. Then comes...
marckaye91May 18, 20153 minThe In-betweenI think I have become too reliant on the GPS. It’s probably typical to look for the most direct route from point A to point B and that is...
marckaye91May 17, 20153 minAttachmentsMy wife left me and my house almost a year ago. When people left my life in the past, I used to internalize it to the point where I had...
marckaye91Jan 20, 20152 minOh Captain, My Captain!“I went to the woods because I wanted to live deliberately. I wanted to live deep and suck out all the marrow of life.” – Whitman This is...
marckaye91Jan 12, 20153 minFrom Denzel to TwainI would like to say that this quote has stayed with me based on my long history of familiarity with the literary greats and shaped by...
marckaye91Jan 7, 20152 minYou Sunk My Battleship!My kids love to play games, my daughter especially. It’s become a bit of a ritual that, if there is time before bed, we will play Sorry,...
marckaye91Jan 6, 20153 minFace (reality) bookSomeone posted a great video vignette on Facebook the other day that got right to the point – Facebook is great at creating an alternate...
marckaye91Jan 3, 20152 minUnbroken“If you can take it, you can make it.” I took my son to see “Unbroken” yesterday. It was a good film. i tend to be a harsh critic so I...